When you leave the event on this big high, then what? You've told your secrets, broke your silence, addressed the issues in your marriage and relationships. You have revealed all of this stuff and are discovering why exactly you are unfulfilled and unhappy. You find it know exactly what to do, and go home, and the fire dies down. At the last event they covered so much in the two full days, it wasn't enough time. There was so much more than the women wanted to talk about and discuss; break through walls that they have had around them for years.
This upcoming event will be completely different and about 80% off site. There will be some madness and tough prayers trying to keep you from wanting to question why you are there. It is all about the breakthrough, and you will walk away with the What Now. It can be intimidating, but Carla understands the breakthrough, knowing you can't move forward in the same cycles. Carla understands and takes it to heart wanting all of the women to find their breakthrough moments so they can change the patterns and behaviors.
“Every person is made with a certain grit and determination and we forget that as we get older and our situations change.” - AZ
This will be a completely different experience from the last. This will be an immersion process, and Carla will be putting up different crucibles to find out and discover what the women are made of. Every person is made with a certain grit and determination, and we forget that as we get older and our situations change.
Carla's marriage has been a lot of work, and she couldn't do it, she couldn't work on herself, she was dying inside before. She thought she was that woman, that is who she was supposed to be; that was a lie she was trying to live, to be okay with her circumstances. She didn't want to stir the pot with A.Z., and she didn't want her children to think she didn't love them. Carla stayed in it with the thoughts that she could hang in a few more years. The thing is a few more years makes you realize that you are stuck in it and there were other things you could have done.
A lot of women are holding back because now they are raising grandchildren, using the guilt for not being present for their kids by being present for their grandchildren. Even with the stay at home Moms who now have time to do things they have wanted too but lack the confidence to try.
Carla for the time being a stay at home Mommy and a business owner was being run by her staff, and by her husband. This event is for everyone; women in business, stay at home Moms, the single and divorced woman, this is for women who need to live more powerfully.
Younger women that attend will see the struggles of the other women and realize how they need to step into their power, so they don't have to experience the same trials. Not ending up in only a wife and Mommy role and not fulfilling what they should for their lives and in turn losing themselves.
Carla recently lost herself coming home from a four day trip with her family. She is trying to unpack everyone, and A.Z. immediately gets on his laptop. She was already behind on work, and yet he comes home, and he is acting like a powerful man and needs to pay the bills, this was her perception. She lost herself for a quick moment, and it was in her attitude.
She told A.Z. that it wasn't okay for him to come home, she went into her Mommy/Maid role, starts doing laundry, and she is organizing her calendar with teacher meetings she has that week, doctors appointments; she realized she had better things and more things to do. She needed to start working because she enjoys and loves it.
She took control, became the boss she needed to be, text her housekeeper to let her know she had laundry to do. She was so conditioned to be the way she used to be that she loses herself in the moment. Most women need to understand that your life doesn't start once your kids are in college; you will be lost. Take the steps now to know what you want to get what you want 4 or 5 years from now.